Well i don't really know what im doing wrong, i feel like im slacking in raids when im actually trying :-\, my dps seems poor and my raid awareness seems shocking, i don't know i feel like im doing loads of mistakes.

(my Ui ----)

TBH, I don't see the need for 2 sets of raid frames, or the raid-dps graph from recount - it's just extra clutter on the screen to distract you. You can also increase the size of the DBM timers in the middle of the screen that show imminent, so they are more obvious.

You could try the UI I use: http://tukui.org which is very clean and simple, and I absolutely love it. The next version is going to be released early next week (with any luck)

This is what the current version looks like during a raid:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4A03KJjyeg

yea none shoudl haev Recount open during fight.. check ur dps/stuff after but not keep it on during fight pls